…I hAvE sEeN yOu ToTaLLy ChAnGeD

I often hear this quotation, “The only constant in this world is change.” This is neither good nor bad. We can’t hold it still. This is the way of things in this ever-changing world. Nothing stays the same forever. Are you ready for it? What can we do to jibe with changes and that we won’t be left behind?

In philosophy, CHANGE refers to the transition that occurs from same to different. And according to Wikipedia, it is to add to, to make different in some ways. It is cyclical, and one expects circumstances to recur. It means doing something different; something totally different. Change has two impulses, one of which comes from the external environment. They are things that happen over which we have no control. The other impulses are those changes we choose internally, aimed at keeping the organization or the self in tune with the present and sensitive to possible future events.

Life is a constant change. So it is a great need to be on the go all the time. It’s a must to keep the pace of time. We have to be very keen all the time that we would somehow belong and not be left behind. Let’s do our best today, every now and then, and that we could cope with the changes around us. Remember that we can’t bring back time. Every second is one very significant. So let’s always give our best shot all the time.

Change has a considerable psychological impact on the human mind. To the fearful it is threatening because it means that things may get worse. To the hopeful it is encouraging because things may get better. To the confident it is inspiring because the challenge exists to make things better.(King Whitney Jr.)

…wOrRiEd?

Why is it that people get worried about anything? What are the reasons why people become so anxious about something? Is there anything to worry about? You guys out there, are you an anxious type of person? What are the things that made you become one? How do you fight this situation? Is there really a need to be queasy? Why do we have to feel that?

It is vividly defined as a state of apprehension and fear resulting from the anticipation of a threatening event or situation. In psychiatry, a patient has an anxiety disorder if normal psychological functioning is disrupted or if anxiety persists without an identifiable cause. It is a relatively permanent state of worry and nervousness occurring in a variety of mental disorders, usually accompanied by compulsive behavior or attacks of panic (psychiatry). It is a vague unpleasant emotion that is experienced in anticipation of some (usually ill-defined) misfortune.

Why do we have to worry about future events, where in fact they are still likely to come? Simply means they are not yet happening. But can we not refrain ourselves from feeling anxious? Can we control ourselves, our emotions, our feelings regarding this matter?

Well friends, we worry about many things in our lives for the future. Let’s simply do our best today, that our tomorrow would be fine and serene as the ocean on normal days. Our future greatly depends on the kind of steps we are making today. So, let’s always watch our steps as we often read on a stairway. Be the best of what you are!