…sAdNeSs KiLLs

Have you experience extreme sadness? Or have you seen someone feeling that way? For what? What are the reasons that one experiences this extreme sadness? Can we just live our lives without experiencing this? Can we avoid this? How? What should we do if we are in this state? What can you suggest if one is having this situation? What if you are experiencing this, what would you do?

Friends, we, as human as we are, are prone to have extreme feelings. Be it happiness, excitement, anxiety, anger, sadness and many more. We can’t avoid to experience them. We meet them along our ways as we continue our daily lives. But the questions are, are we prepared for these situations? Do we know how to place ourselves when these happen? Do we know how to handle them?

These should be taken cared of. We should be careful of these feelings. Many people lost their lives because of them. They weren’t able to control their emotions, especially the ones that are experiencing heart problems and other related maladies. The more when we talk about sadness. It kills as I say it. Quite a lot end up to nothing after they’ve experienced this. Others even commit suicide due to this. So, be aware of this. It really kills. The best way to lighten up the loads of your burden is to share it to your trusted friends. Open it up to them. At least they can give you a piece of advice. Just don’t keep it yourself.

So friends, let’s take good care of our lives. We only live ones. We only have one life, either. So we have to live it to the fullest. Have a happy life friends!

…I dO mIsS yOu

After sometime, being away for quite a long time, I kept thinking of you. I couldn’t concentrate in everything I do. You always came to my mind. No matter what I did, I couldn’t lose you even a single minute of my day. You manipulated my mind. Why couldn’t I forget about you? Why did I keep thinking of you? What had you done to my life?

What I can say is that, “I just miss you a lot!” I badly miss you. For all those times we weren’t able to see and check each other, I felt like I was completely lost and out of my mind, just thinking of you day and night. You’ve touched my life. I don’t wanna lose you. I want you to stay. Life would not be the same without you. It would be nothing without you. It would be meaningless.

Have you felt the same way friends? What is this indication? Do you have any idea? Why do I feel this way? Am I in love? Well, I do am! I am greatly in love! Do you know to whom I refer those phrases above? It’s for my blog. I miss doing my inspiration. Now that I’m home, I can do it once again. Join me around people as I do my inspiration. Thanks!

…mY tHiRd DaY iN wUhAn

I started my day with a smile ‘coz I couldn’t help thinking of our trip to Beijing. I always wear a smile on my face thinking of this. Only one day more to go, I told myself.

Since my friend had classes yet, I just stayed at home, foreseeing our days in Beijing. I acted like a kid due to my excitement. I didn’t know what to do. I wanna sleep yet I couldn’t. I wanna eat yet I didn’t have appetite. I didn’t understand my emotions. I just prepared our things to be brought there. Arranged the food, drinks, ironed our clothes and so on. We are, in fact, very ready to go there. Everything is ready. We even bought our tickets more than a week ahead, ‘coz we were kinda afraid they might be sold out beforehand, due to the holiday.

So here we go friends, we are so excited and ready for the day to come. We are looking forward to seeing you there. We just hope everything will be alright. See you in Beijing everyone!

…fEeL aT hOmE

I stay in a friend’s house here in Wuhan. I feel like I’m at home. I can freely move whatever I like. As she is busy ‘coz she still has classes before her holidays.

She lives in an elegant apartment. She’s on the 26th floor. Meaning, there’s a great view from her house. It’s my first time to live in such a high apartment. I took lots of photos from her window, capturing the brilliant scenery around the place, tall buildings, the stadium (sports complex) and many more.

As she’s doing classes, I am also busy blogging and chatting with some friends. They are asking my whereabouts. They were so pleased to know my schedules during the holidays. They wished they could also go with me. What a pity for them ‘coz they only have few days holiday. Maybelle, thanks for the accommodation here. I do take this into account. Thanks a million times!

…I hAvE sEeN yOu ToTaLLy ChAnGeD

I often hear this quotation, “The only constant in this world is change.” This is neither good nor bad. We can’t hold it still. This is the way of things in this ever-changing world. Nothing stays the same forever. Are you ready for it? What can we do to jibe with changes and that we won’t be left behind?

In philosophy, CHANGE refers to the transition that occurs from same to different. And according to Wikipedia, it is to add to, to make different in some ways. It is cyclical, and one expects circumstances to recur. It means doing something different; something totally different. Change has two impulses, one of which comes from the external environment. They are things that happen over which we have no control. The other impulses are those changes we choose internally, aimed at keeping the organization or the self in tune with the present and sensitive to possible future events.

Life is a constant change. So it is a great need to be on the go all the time. It’s a must to keep the pace of time. We have to be very keen all the time that we would somehow belong and not be left behind. Let’s do our best today, every now and then, and that we could cope with the changes around us. Remember that we can’t bring back time. Every second is one very significant. So let’s always give our best shot all the time.

Change has a considerable psychological impact on the human mind. To the fearful it is threatening because it means that things may get worse. To the hopeful it is encouraging because things may get better. To the confident it is inspiring because the challenge exists to make things better.(King Whitney Jr.)

…AmAzEd By GrEaT cOnCeRn

As I was doing my inspiration, doing blogging, one Chinese teacher asked me where would I go during the holidays. Kinda concern, huh? Well, I like it. She just showed her care about it for I told them I wanna travel during these holidays beforehand. The more I appreciated her great care after I told her I wanna go to Beijing. She even volunteered herself to buy ticket for me, as she can pass the station when she goes home. Thank you so much for that great concern. I was really amazed by that kindness she showed me. Such a benevolent fella! I just wish all people are like that, showing concern to each other. It would have been a much beautiful place to be lived in. Let’s always try to demonstrate concern to one another.

…wOrRiEd?

Why is it that people get worried about anything? What are the reasons why people become so anxious about something? Is there anything to worry about? You guys out there, are you an anxious type of person? What are the things that made you become one? How do you fight this situation? Is there really a need to be queasy? Why do we have to feel that?

It is vividly defined as a state of apprehension and fear resulting from the anticipation of a threatening event or situation. In psychiatry, a patient has an anxiety disorder if normal psychological functioning is disrupted or if anxiety persists without an identifiable cause. It is a relatively permanent state of worry and nervousness occurring in a variety of mental disorders, usually accompanied by compulsive behavior or attacks of panic (psychiatry). It is a vague unpleasant emotion that is experienced in anticipation of some (usually ill-defined) misfortune.

Why do we have to worry about future events, where in fact they are still likely to come? Simply means they are not yet happening. But can we not refrain ourselves from feeling anxious? Can we control ourselves, our emotions, our feelings regarding this matter?

Well friends, we worry about many things in our lives for the future. Let’s simply do our best today, that our tomorrow would be fine and serene as the ocean on normal days. Our future greatly depends on the kind of steps we are making today. So, let’s always watch our steps as we often read on a stairway. Be the best of what you are!